No one with actual knowledge has jumped in here, so I will... The first question would be why? The wording of the query seems to imply that the putative arcing horn would be line-to-ground across a 95kV BIL insulator. This is protection that is now usually handled by a MOV arrestor.
The only common use for arcing horns these days is for use as arc transfer horns above switch contacts. In such a case, the BIL doesn't have much to do with horn design; the spacing of the throat is near zero, and opens with the main contacts so that the resultant arc sucessfully transfers to the horns which self-extingush the arc. Taper I would expect is more determined by available space than anything else.
I would expect the ultimate width of the horns to be fairly critical, but wouldn't have an idea of what usual practice calls for. It should be noted that many current switch transfer arc horns are arranged so that one arm is spring-loaded to snap open very quickly to sretch the arc as quickly as possible.
If your application is indeed for switch transfer horns, I'd suggest looking at examples. Since most of the switch will be designed based on staying above critical flashover distance to prevent starting phase to phase or phase to ground arcs, but the horns are instead designed to extingush an already existing arc, it would seem that the widest part of the horn needs to be several to many times the critical flashover distance.