Let's see if I've got this right.
Someone (maybe you) has forgotten to order a 42" #900 blind (not sure if this is a blind flange or a spade type). These are available to ASME B 16.48 and / or MSS-SP-44 ( above 24" they are the same thing). At 231mm thick [sic] it is a bit of a monster.
So now you want to fabricate something not as thick but add reinforcement instead (makes me think this is a blind flange), somehow weld this steel to the flange to stiffen it thereby introducing lots of forces and stresses, analyse this with a finite element program and then presumably present it to someone for their review and approval? The excuse that "We didn't have time / schedule to buy the proper equipment" hasn't much of a chance in court....
People may have been doing this and getting away with it for years, but it doesn't make it right and for this size and pressure it will still be a big thing. Line blinds are less of an issue than blind flanges, but still need to be designed properly and only when any failure is not a destructive one.
You're looking in the wrong place for any attempt to prove this thing (a sketch would be great to see). You need to use ASME VIII or 31.3 or one of the flange codes, not a gas pipeline code - Annex A of MSS SP 44 gives some guidance on how they did it, referring to ASME VIII and providing some stress values they used for many stresses, not just von mises.
I would be spending your time trying to find one of these blinds and get it to your location as fast as you can.
The real problem is that you'll do this, use it more than once and then think it's OK, right up to the point where it fails.
which country / region is this being executed?
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Also: There's usually a good reason why everyone does it that way