Hi lcmechengr,
There are many different designs for boilers and so there will never be "standard" allowable nozzle loadings. The only thing you can do is to ask the OEM to provide the allowable nozzle loadings for various inlet and outlet headers. My experience with this has not been good. The typical response to such a request is for the OEM to propose an analysis at a huge expense. Sometimes though, you get lucky and someone in the OEM's engineering department will look in the archives and find (and send you) the header drawings that were provided with the boiler (for installation purposes) and these drawings will sometimes have the allowable loadings (and the calculated cold-to-hot expansion movements) for the piping "by others". Sometimes, but it happens rarely. More rare (twice in my 46 years in the business) is the response from the OEM telling you that their header construction is so robust that your pipe will yield under loading before the loadings will challange the structural integrity of their boiler ("they just don't build 'em that way any more" - but at one time they tried to).
The structural analysis of the headers and their supporting boiler structure is likely the only way to develop "maximum allowable loadings". It is important to NOT look at the local header connection exclusively because often the limiting construction detail is some distance from the connection. We have all been through this and there is no easy way to get the information needed to perform the analyses correctly.
Regards, John.