I'm at the beginning of managing a technology transfer to China and am considering some of the same things.
First off, decide whether you're ready to walk TODAY. If so, it makes the negotiation much easier for you. I've secured a guarantee of 6 months severance pay for any termination except gross negligence.
We've also negotiated 10% retroactive raises and slam-dunk performance bonuses equal to roughly 50% of annual salary.
We haven't agreed for certain on accommodations but it will be at a Western hotel (Mariott or Holiday Inn).
One thing that most people seem to neglect: Vaccinations. Go see a travel Doc or visit the CDC site to see what's suggested for China. My shots, along with a scrip for Cipro and an antimalarial, ran better than $500.
Another thing you might consider: Given the risks of bird flu and (potentially) SARS, you might negotiate guaranteed medevac or guaranteed care where the elite are taken care of. I haven't quite thought this one through for myself but I'll be carrying a corporate credit card so I have coverage built in.
Also consider whether you want a guarantee of how often you come home.
If you're really valuable, you might hold out for guaranteed Business Class airfare; it is a stinking long, long time to be sitting in the cattle car.
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Bring back the HP-15
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