i've been thinking alitle more about this. assume the lifting sling is an isosceles triangle (so the load in each sling is the same, equilibrium at the lift point). this means that each sling puts the same load into the spreader bar (the base of the lift structure). assume the load is attached at two places to the lift structure. for this attachment to react the off-set moment, the load is unevenly reacted by the two attachments, which contradicts the equal load for the slings; so the load will tilt.
changing the lengths of the slings, distorting the lift structure resolves the off-set couple by mobving the lift point to be above the load.
another way is to incline the lift line (so that the line of action passes through the load point), and you'll need to provide a lateral force (onto the spreader bar) to offset the lateral component of the lift. you could do this with a fixed wall and a roller.
these are probably the only? ways to resolve the two-force loading (considering the lift and the weight).