I don't have any commerical power experience, but I believe I understand the basic issue. Forgive me if I am telling you what you already know.
Electronic devices draw non-sinusoidal current which is periodic at 60hz. It will contain some harmonics (2nd, 3rd etc).
If we hook up identical electronic devices on each of three phases, then the currents drawn in each of the three phases will be identical except that they are shifted in time by one third of an ac cycle =(1/3)*(1/60)sec.
This means the first harmonics will be separated from each other by (1/3)*(1/60)sec times 360 degrees/(1/60sec) = 120 degrees.
Second harmoics will be separated by (1/3)*(1/60)sec times 360 degrees/(1/2*60sec) = 240 degrees.
Third harmonics will be separated by (1/3)*(1/60)sec times 360 degrees/(1/3*60sec) = 360 degrees.... ie the third harmonic currents from the three individual phases are all in phase with each other. When they meet at the neutral they will not cancel out (like 1st harmonic), but they will add together algebraically so the neutral 3rd harmonic current will be 3 times the phase third harmonic current.
Neutral wire must be sized to accomodate that current.