We didn't find anything when we searched a few years ago.
Everyone kept bringing up ASME Y14.41 but this isn't what you're talking about, it's about MBD.
We wrote our own internal one, based on references I had from a previous employer and various ideas of best practice etc that we's picked up along the way, and we asked our CAD vendor about a couple of things.
The trouble with a generic standard is that there are so many differences between software that it's difficult to cover them all. Even though a lot of them share similar processes & functions etc. if nothing else terminology can be different.
You may have more luck just looking for something for your specific CAD package. I once saw a little guide called Unigraphics for dummies (freebe at UGS conference) which may be the kind of thing you're talking about.
KENAT, probably the least qualified checker you'll ever meet...