Roll the threads after EP.
Your EP is taking off the work hardened layer from the rolling.
Long term you will need a lube.
Either a synthetic grease that you reapply each time or silver plate as TBE suggests.
Even that won't last forever.
One of the parts needs to have a different hardness.
Maybe use Nitronic 50, or 17-4PH (H1150), or even a higher alloy grade such as AL-6XN.
In reality if you want long term performance use a stub of AL-6XN with the female threads and use silver plated 304 plugs.
These will be a maintenance item in that as they wear, they will be discarded.
One of these alloy options along with silver plate should get you some reasonable service.
But if this is a hygienic system, why do you even have threads in the first place?
This should be a blank flange.
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