There is flux cross coupling in certain legs, but the important thing to note is that the secondary windings are laid on the same leg of the magnetic circuit as the primary windings (I am speaking in a general nature here-i I am certainly not an xfmr designer, so there may be other designs than the ones I am aware of,but the principle of the design remains the same). The only flux in these legs is the flux developed by the dv/dt of the primary winding, so the secondary windings never 'see' the flux in those areas of the core where flux paths 'mix'. This feature is intentional, since the flux induced by each primary winding is 120 degrees shifted from the other two, any cross coupling that would induce mutual inductance will decrease the voltage transfer (i.e if I put a winding on the "flux return" leg, I would not get much of any induced voltage on the secondary winding at all, since the flux from each phase cancels out (just like the currents in a wye connected system cancel out, leaving little current, if any, to flow on the nuetral leg).