You can have shared topology, but you have to select the elements on the edge of one of the parts to be joined by the weld, and then select the nodes on that edge. Put a local CSYS at the origin of the weld group, and set the SPOINT as the global coordinates of the local CSYS. Set the RSYS to the local CSYS, then do FSUM,RSYS. The resulting reaction forces will be in the correct csys and the reaction moments will be around the centroid of the weld group.
Rick Fischer
Principal Engineer
Argonne National Laboratory