mirelavus,
Yes I did look at your report. Looking closer at the video and the details of the report, it appears that you have applied your displacement constraints to the entire upper surface - I think this is where your additional stiffness is coming from. As I mentioned in a previous post, you need to be very judicious when applying displacement constraints to surfaces, as they will generally add rotational stiffness to the model (sometimes it doesn't matter, but for flat springs this is a big deal). Each and every point on this surface is prevented from moving in any direction - this is unrealistic and drives all the deflections and stresses into the legs. This is why I suggested only applying a displacement constraint (NOT a fixed moment) to the bottom edge. Ideally, you would be using a contact interface on the top, which would restrain the surface with normal forces, but no moment; but this is another level of complexity.
You might also read the thread in this forum about Belleville Springs, originally posted by tazengr - the advice given there applies here as well.
One other thing I neglected to mention in my last post:
4b) In the definition of the static analysis, you need to enable the "Large Deflections" checkbox.
Peter