Here is a neat test you can do at home to help understand and appreciate polarity ...
Is H2O polar?
(sorry if it doesn't directly address polar gases ... although disccussions of polarity are usually applied to liquids in my experience)
Oxygen attracts electrons moreso than does hydrogen, as shown in Pete's recemmended sites, above, so if water's molecular structure was straight chain or line would be
H-O-H
with net partial positive charge on the ends and net partial negative charge in the middle. The straight line structure is symetric and the water would not be polar. If it is a bent line, then it would be polar, with a partial negative charge on one side, and partial positive charge on the other (have a dipole moment).
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/ H H
Now, make a small stream of water come out of a tap, get a hair comb and pass it through your hair to get a static charge on it ... hold the charged comb near the water stream . .. watch the charged comb pull the water stream out of its vertical drop! Like a magnet. This proves that water has a dipole moment and hence is polar.... (and also that water molecurles are not symettrical in shape). Trying this on non-polar sovents does nothing.
Like solvents dissolve like solvents; polar water dissolves polar ethanol, polar salt, etc. Non-polar oil does not dissolve non-polar water. etc..,. a great general rule...
(PS: soap is funny as it is a long fatty acid chain ... polar at one end and non-polar at the other .. the non-polar end dissolves oils and the like, the polar end makes the whole thing dissolve in water.. hence the grease cutting action in water .. where would we be without that eh?)
