If running calcs, L/480 (max 1/2") for live load deflection of joists, L/600 (max 3/4") for girders. Unless, of course, strength controls. But that's actually pretty rare for high end homes. If pulling from IRC tables, always go up one size.
IRC tables are okay for older style homes with lots of split up rooms. Larger rooms and open areas, even if it 'works' based on IRC tables, the floors are often quite bouncy.