You are all correct, but it seems you do not see that the other guy is correct too. This is how all of your correct statements go together.
We need to see this as two examples. First, the wing and resulting uplift. Second, the principals of low and high pressure with regard to a shell structure.
The home with a pitched roof will act like a wing and uplift will be generated on the overall building because it is a longer distance over the roof than under the floor and therefore the wind must travel at a higher velocity over the roof and produces a low pressure above the house. A lower pressure than what is found below the house. Now, whether this uplift will overcome the reduced dead load of the project is what you need to calculate and resist with appropriately located and sized hold-downs.
Now, the house is also similar to a shell structure like a tank in the sense that air flowing past the structure's exterior will make lower pressure than is inside the home. Therefore the pressure inside the home will push out on all the walls (and in this raised case, the floor too). So, this definitely causes there to be a force that will try to rip the floor off the bottom of the house, but I would not consider it a down-force. To be conservative in your design you should neglect this force and only consider the uplift for your hold-down design. However, you should consider this force acting alone when designing the components that will keep the floor attached to the rest of the house because this outward pressure (also known as suction) is a real force that needs to be accounted for.
Seeing as this is a beach house, it is likely that ocean winds will not be obstructed by anything and winds are likely to be frequent and substantial. Definitely take as many conservative approaches as you can in this design.
Note that in the automobile examples given that the shape of the car causes uplift in general because the top is longer from front to back than the bottom (due to distance differences in a curve and straight line). To overcome this uplift affect in high speed vehicles the addition of a "spoiler" or airfoil at the rear, and in some cases the front, of the car. The airfoil is a wing turned upside down to counteract the uplift forces without adding much to drag. Drag is certainly there, but reduced due to its aerodynamic shape.