I rarely depend on a single approach to analysis. As much confidence as I have in FEA, I still do quick and dirty checks. I also do hand calcs on some things for simplicity and I sometimes do hand calcs with FEA validation.
I tend to be a tad conservative with column load takedowns... not much redistribution <G>. Having said that, there is a price to pay for irregular framed objects... and this just falls into that category.
I do both. Perform my own tributary areas and self weight hand calc's and then have a look at the column reaction output from a design package like Ram Concept. I think that is probably the only useful application of Ram Concept but I shouldn't really go into that.