I'd never heard the term "wetting current", but it seems perfectly appropriate. Last time I checked, and it was a while ago, gold crosspoint switches were rated at "2...20mA". I.e., subtly not guaranteed to be 'closed' at currents below 2mA.
I don't recall seeing minimum currents in connector specs, but they should be buried in there somewhere, at least in the fat connector catalogs that the reps don't like to give away.
Sorry, I don't believe in hermetic bonds made in air at room temperature, especially not in connectors, especially not in pin and socket connectors.
Coupla milliamperes in a benign environment with a short warranty, sure. But putting a high impedance signal through a connector is just asking for trouble, IMHO.
Mike Halloran
NOT speaking for
DeAngelo Marine Exhaust Inc.
Ft. Lauderdale, FL, USA