jabsab,
Does the valve have a rotary actuator that pushes and pulls the valve stem via a rack-and-pinion or similar device?
I would like to see this valve. I don't know that I've seen a gate valve where the stem friction wasn't due to the interface between the valve stem and the valve packing. Regardless, unless this is a small valve in low pressure service, you're going to find that the packing friction force is substantially less that the process forces.
Pharo of Thermo