nb, I've seen the Zebra connectors many times in the past but never knew they had a name...not what I need for this, but cool nonetheless. The silver paint, however, looks like it would be a great candidate...decent cure time of 3-10 minutes, no heat/UV needed, priced within prototype range. Unless I find something better, I'll probably go with a bottle of that.
Scotty, I'll keep the LocTite stuff in mind as projects size requires it. For the moment, having a shelf life measured in months and at freezing storage temps for single-component glues makes it more of a pain than it's worth.
If anyone else has any more ideas, I'm all ears...