I really like Monihan's book. It is a good combination of theory and practcality. I am also partial to Fang as I was fortunate enough to study under him. So I recomend both books.
Big H has probably the best point. It's not just matching a compaction result to a proctor. It is an overal program. Inspecting the borrow pits and sampling, Doing laboratory multiple point proctors. doing sieves moisture content and limit tests, having the engineer review and accept the material and coordinating the work with the contractor. I have seen jobs where several pits, each with approved proctors, have been pulled out of simultaniously to go in the same fill. Note that Proctor A + Proctor B does not equal Proctor A+B. Also I have jobs where stanard proctor is required and proctors in the lab were modified because nobody comminicated (or vice versa) Note that it is very easy to get in excess of 100% standard proctor.
Also rember that if you are testing with a nuclear gauge, the toal density is the average density of the lift (up to 12 inches)but the moisture is a backscatter measurement in the top 2-3 inches so unexpected high or low readings should be checked prior to acceptance or rejection.
Proctors are multi point tests that require 3 days to perform. One point proctors are performed in the lab to cross check the test. One points, even done by experineced technicians can be way off. I would not recomend using one pointers for feild inspection.
If the project does not have a testing plan for eathwork, use the states DOT's practices. A.) They are probably the largest owner contracting for earthwork B.) They have refined a system for that area over the years and C.) Most earthwork contractors are familar with it.
That said one of my pet peeves in civil engineering is compaction testing. I have yet to figure out quanataively what compaction tests say about bearing capacity or settlement pediction. So if we arbitarily accept (and the acceptance value seems rather arbitary to me)of 95% and we have 92%, how do we know the fill won't perform as intendend? On the other hand if we have 98% how do we know it is enough?