Read U-1(a)(3)... again. I call this the Sound Engineering Practice Disclaimer.
If your FEA dude has done everything right, and I have found that it takes several iterations for them to get everything right, then you should be able to go with the FEA results. However, be aware that if there is a problem and your FEA results turn out to be incorrect, whereas The Code would have given you the correct results, you will be hosed.
My personal experience is to go with The Code if it has the application. Why would you want to take the risk associated with deviating from The Code? Steel is a lot cheaper than litigation.
Last but not least, if you have one, talk this over with your A.I. Most of those guys know their stuff and are happy to help.
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