Wow, dissapointing lack of reaction.
I can't give you a rule of thumb other than softer= better and to be honest I'd be a bit surprised if you have not already got your suspension as soft as possible.
However, I'd split it up into three tasks
1) How will the grip change as you change the spring rate?
2) What is the likely change in grip from a change in tire width?
3) How to determine the necessary change in spring rate?
1) is pretty much controlled by the weight transfer. the general rule seems to be the lateral grip at a given slip angle is proportional to the vertical load^0.7
So, if you double the weight on the wheel, the grip goes up by 60% or so. Obviously the other wheel on the axle will drop to zero, so a stiff suspension has only 80% of the grip potential of a completely compliant one.
2) haven't seen much in the publc domain on this. A cynic would say that according to the simple rules of friction the contact patch area and shape is irrelevant, so grip = k*width^0
An optimist, or marketing man, might think that grip =k*width
I'll use the data from (1) and say a fatter tyre is a little bit like having an extra tyre in there, so grip=k*width^0.7, only not as good, so grip=k*width^0.4.
3) Using the above equations and the track, spring rate, motion ratio, geometry, cg height and sta bar rates you should be able to work out the required change in weight transfer. I imagine you'll want less weight transfer with a narrower tire.
Cheers
Greg Locock