Take a look at the Abaqus documentation chapter "Plane stress orthotropic failure measures" (Analysis User's Guide). It features formulas that should help you understand the relationship between these parameters for each criterion. For example Tsai-Hill criterion is:
(σ_11^2/X^2)-((σ_11*σ_22)/X^2)+(σ_22^2/Y^2)+(σ_12^2/S^2) < 1
X = X_t for σ_11 > 0, otherwise X = X_c
Y = Y_t for σ_22 > 0, otherwise Y = Y_c
where: X_t and X_c - tensile and compressive stress limit in 1 direction, Y_t and Y_c - tensile and compressive stress limit in 2 direction, S - maximum shear stress in X-Y plane
The term σ_11*σ_22 is a cross-product that you've mentioned.
Similar relationships are described in the documentation for remaining criteria. There's no point to rewrite them here (especially that Tsai-Wu formulas are quite long).