Gunnar,
are you saying that by pulsing the triac (opto) with a pw of 500us shouldn't kill the triac? THe load is a 500W, 120Vac incandescent bulb. SO for sure I am getting over the holding current. And I have verified on a scope looking at the triac trigger pulse width versus my zero cross detects, that everthing looked good. I am wondering if my circuit operates at 130VAC, with a 178ohm resistor in series with the high side of the optotriac and gate of the Littlefuse triac, if that's killing the triac. Maximum surge current is 1A on the littlefuse. @ 130vac, peak is 183, which gives me a current over a 1A. What blows my mind is that I have runned this circuit in the lab, @ full load, 500W, over a period of 200+ hours, with the microcontroller pulsing the opto with PW of 500us of trigger to the triac, operating as a light dimmer, dimming and have never seen a failure. I am able to change my analog control to the circuit and watch the dimming behave beautifully. Yes the triac does heatup to 130degF, but it's stable and the dimming still behaves with a 500W load. Boards are sent out in the field, and they are failing.