Sorry about the long response, but wanted to address everyone.
OHIOMatt, no, there are no local requirements. Local Planning assumes the federal government has something that is appropriate for rules and that should suffice. Don't believe there is any state. Planning will approve the permit without doing any calculations. The only commercial building process here is to make sure inspections for electrical/plumbing is done, proper parking and the structure setbacks.
SteelPE, yes, the engineer would be in big trouble if designs are flawed and should not risk his/her reputation by stamping it. That is the argument Planning gave me. No verifying the engineer's credentials (like they are really licensed and not a fake-I doubt that would happen).
I have read in another thread here of an engineer asking for help because his boss (who is also an engineer) is ordering him to occasionally cut corners. hmmm.
As for can a monopole really fall?
It can even happen to the fire department. I have verified with my local fire chief, protocol is to attend burning (of a monopole) to make sure the surrounding area has nobody in the danger/fall zone, but to do nothing about the tower itself except call the owner. Let it burn.
If you want the google earth address for a lattice fall (600 ft) not to far away from me, I can post it also.
I have been pushing for two years on ordinance (city is run by a lawyer who has better things to do). I hope to finally have something this spring. I don't use this cell company so reception doesn't matter. Nice thought though. Yes, I'm a little bitter at having my property value reduced and my safety compromised. Ever seen what happens when you drop a wrench from 100 ft up? or left one up there. I know a tower climber (with safety training) who this happened to. Should my kids wear helmets?
Real fear? Liability. Tower falls on my farm fence (yes, I'm in city limits). Farm animals escape and get hit by a car on one of the two adjacent highways that straddle the property. Guess who gets sued? This is my fault how?
Love the grate idea for falling ice! We have had this problem so will pass it on.
Not one of ours but makes the point:
JStephen: guy wired towers usually do not extend out on the ground the equivalent of the full height of the tower.
cvg: I would agree...as long as you are not sitting in the fire departments truck (see above firehouse link

Last week a platform jumper didn't let go of his parachute fast enough on a tower we have equipment on. 400ft. Tower even didn't have to fall to kill him. (btw, he broke in a secured area to do this)
I can find an unofficial listing of deaths of BASE jumping, but nothing on tower falls.