I would suggest never using the Bcc... in emails. That was the policy at PPG Industries and I've found it to be an excellent policy. If you are not willing to be open and honest with all people, you have character problems. Not using the Bcc... forces you to think about what you are about to write and the circumstances surrounding it. I've seen Bcc... usage backfire on people, who thought it was the right thing to do. People can get caught up in their own drama using it and get caught up in thinking they're smart for using it. I don't even use it for personal emails. If you get caught using it, what does that say about you? How do you want to
be regarding others versus how do you want them to
think you are?
Edit to insert Cicero: esse quam videri, (to be, rather than to seem to be). One is genuine while the other, possibly, deceptive. But, I'm a duck, so I've been told.
I would also suggest to take responsibility for your work and that of your team, if you have one. I've been in situations where taking responsibility for things that were obviously not mine helped stop complaining and started a good discussion on problem solving. Too few people today are willing to take responsibility even for their own actions let alone someone else's. Sometimes things don't work out the way we would all like. Being honest about those times is the best way to be and allows you to move on permanently, quickly. We have an obvious example of how poorly blame shifting and dishonesty works on the world stage now.
Don't establish a punitive environment because that invites negative trouble and instills fear, back biting, gossip, etc.
Establish a professional environment that encourages young engineers to take calculated risks and learn.
Good manners go a long way just like being polite does.
Treat people with respect and dignity by acknowledging their existence and humanity.
Pamela K. Quillin, P.E.
Quillin Engineering, LLC
NSPE-CO, Central Chapter