A fastener works like a coil spring. As you tighten the bolt or nut on a stud, it will stretch and generate a clamping load. The key to correct tightening of the fastener is to tighten it until it is just slightly less that the fasteners elastic limit. To do it dead on you must identify the material of the stud and find out what that limit is, then use a dial indicator and tighten until just shy of the materials elastic limit. If you must torque it down, remember that the torque is measuring a resistence to movement and will be effected by friction. Use a lubricant and tighten the nut or nut and washer if one is going to be used several times to burnish it in dry a couple of times and then use libricant on the final tightening. ARP recommends fully torquing each fasterner 3 times with moly lube.
But that wasn't your question was it? You wanted to know how much pulling force you could put on a 13mm depth M8 stud in say A356 aluminum that had been heat treated to a T-6 spec (common aftermarket aluminum cylinder head). Another bit of information required would be thread count (corse/fine) or thread pitch (basically the distance from one thread to the next on metric threads). Each one of those threads engauged distribute load and you need to determine what is least; the fastener material elastic limit by diameter, the aluminum load limit disributed by number of threads or the nut's (no, not mine) load limit.