This typically depends on the design of the valve, my personal prejudice is trunnion mounted, double block and bleed.
In this case, with the valve closed, you can pull the body plug and monitor the pressure cavity with a gauge. If the seat is shot, obviously a rise in pressure occurs.
If your valve is a floater, you don't have this luxury. You might be able to locate a leak via audio means, but this may not be an indication of any problem other than bypass. (i.e. is the seat leaking or is a seat gasket undergoing bypass?)
Monitor your torque values with time. Obviously with leaks you have both seat wear and an accumulation of pressure somewhere not intended. You should see a spiked rise in torsional values with time. I typically record factory values during pressure tests (API 6A and CSA Z245.15) so that a baseline can be established for comparative strategies down the road.
Good luck with it. I think you have a difficult problem at best.
Kenneth J Hueston, PEng
Principal
Sturni-Hueston Engineering Inc
Edmonton, Alberta Canada