EddyC - I don't think so - I think your two firms are probably more the norm, although after the Hyatt Regency collapse, and especially in the last 10 years or so, I think a lot more structural firms are setting up their own connection schedules or at least showing standard connections based on beam depth, etc.
I would agree that if a firm doesn't do the connection design, then they at least have to show the reactions. One firm I worked with some years ago used to refer to the AISC Manual where they had (and still do have) tables of max. uniform loads that various WF beams could support (based on zero unbraced length). They essentially told the fabricators to go find those tables, find the beam, the span, and look up its max uniform load. Then take it times half the span and voila - you have an end reaction.
In recent years I've leaned toward actually dictating the connections...even the simple framed connections, just due to the uncertainty of what quality of fabricator I'd get.