Florida is it's own animal, and each WMD in Florida is a different breed of that animal. In Florida you're typically on the hook for 25 year detention, and water quality via dry infiltration/retention ponds. The usually don't care about 100 year discharge, because for them that means hurricane, which means they're all watching on TV from a motel in Georgia. They're very protective of their water tables, since they're so close to the surface. Development in the flood plain is often allowed as long as you do something called a glass box analysis, which means pretend your whole site is a pond, turn the outflow off, dump the 100 year storm on it, an make sure that comes below the BFE. There are some other complications as well. SFWMD is requiring a pre/post match on P and N mass loading now too, which is fairly new and befuddling engineers down there. The panhandle regs often look more like Georgia or Alabama. FDOT is it's own animal, and requires not only modeling of certain storm events, but also of different duration storms to find out which unit hydrographic stresses your site the most.
Bama, Mississippi, and Louisiana are usually behind the times, sometimes don't have a wate quality standard at all, and will want to see detention for the 25, 100, or both. Water quality in Mississippi for instance is done through the state and detention is local.
Georgia is by municipality, but they mostly like to claim that they follow the Blue Book (Georgia stormwater management manual) even though the Blue Book is more a list of suggestions than a comprehensive regulation. They also interpret it all differently, and they also latch on to some older practices such as the 2-100 year storms, even thou the Blue Book supposedly abandoned those. Blue Book says 80% TSS reduction, channel protection in a drawdown, 25 year detention, and a 100 year safety check between you and a spot downstream where the basin is equal to ten times your project site.
North Carolina wate quality is run through NCDENR and detention is local, usually just the 2 and 10 year storms unless someone's downstream you might flood out. NCDENR's bmp manual can be frustrating becuse they update it online all the time, sometimes mid project.
South Carolina is famous for being very obstructionist with license by comity, so few engineers outside the state do work there. I have no experience there, but they supposedly do some fascinating stuff with sediment modeling for their erosion control plans.
I'm licensed in Virginia but haven't had a chance to do anything up there yet. I understand discharge to the Chessapeake can be very regulated, but I can't imagine it's any more difficult than SFWMD currently is.
East coast BMPs are typically some version of the same things, stormwater ponds, stomwater wetlands, bioswales, etc. Everyone wants to promote infiltration but they all seem scared to give you credit for doing it. Concepts are the same but design criteria vary by state.