An expert designer may confidently disregard things that he knows won't cause problems. Even if that is true, to question things seeking how new viewpoints may evidence the need to change something may be interesting to those wanting to better the current procedures. However, these distractions maybe not precisely a plus for a practical designer that has little time for speculation.
So, investigation is always interesting, but it has a problem: cost. A cost that is not normally (reasonably) bearable by 1 person (nor may he have or master the necessary tools for that), and so one needs to gather the necessary amount of interest to gather the funds (or required dedication). Plus, wherever in Earth, the regulatory bodies around construction constitute all them a system respect what your question may become an immediate convenience or, momentarily at least (because scarcely practicable) something that they can entirely disregard.
Respect the particular question, so, of proper consideration of own weight, well, the answer is obvious; where it is; and if it at suspended slabs is a significant contributor to shear and not in mats or beams directly supported on the ground, one simply acknowledges the reality of the facts and proceeds.
But it is VERY important to understand that in construction we are not at a level of precision in which we can predict with extreme exactitude the final level of loading our structures can attain. So by just some fine tuning one can even within the code argue one has code compliance when before a grosser check showed a small defect in that.
You may elect your position in the field, but one north american colleague once stated that "What for some is a barbarity, for others it is just enough" and both extremes show case per case to be true, for the good, when much critiziced concepts perform well, or, for the bad, when something fails: it was not even enough, see the failure of the ceilings in tunnels being conversed about in other thread of this forum. So following sound expert advice, and condensed knowledge in books and codes is a more commendable way for most than just personal speculation.