I don't know what they do now, but in the 20th century, some outboard motors used 'cracked' connecting rods.
I.e., the rod was machined complete with an integral cap, with the big end bore finished to act as the outer race for a needle bearing setup. Integral here meaning that the cap was forged as part of the rod.
Additionally, the cap bolt holes were bored, threaded and counterbored.
In addition to that, the thrust faces of the big end were V-notched radially at what would eventually become the rod/cap separation line, using a cutter that left a sharp root.
Then the rod and cap were each stamped with a number, to matchmark them.
Then, the rods were chilled (think liquid nitrogen),
the rod cheeks were clamped in a fixture,
and a big fast moving power hammer struck the rod cap and knocked it off to the side.
Thereafter, that rod and cap stayed together forever, and had to, because the brittle fractured surfaces didn't match any other rod/cap pairs. When the matchmarks were aligned and the bolts were tight, the fracture surface became invisible.
You might be able to find more info by searching for 'cracked rod' at sae.org.
Something like that should work if your spacer is made from a material that can be made brittle, e.g., with very cold temperature.
But I'm thinking that, if your machining removes the solder from everywhere but the joint, it may be possible to fracture the solder by applying tension to the two halves with a pair or bore-shaped shoes, and jacking them apart, with jackscrews or hydraulics.
It also might be possible to remove the solder with 'Soder-Wick', a real product comprising fine copper braid and flux, which removes _most_ of the solder from a joint with a little heat. It takes practice to do it well.
Can you afford to make some test pieces to work out your process?
Mike Halloran
Pembroke Pines, FL, USA