Toolpath,
My hat off to you for taking such an ethical stance. I wonder why, though, you haven't been to your manager, or his/her manager to ask them to explain why you are being asked to use pirated software, and explain that you wouldn't think it ethical if you copied design details for their firearms and handed it on to a third party? It seems as though you enjoy your job and they appreciate you, and that they have no other problems with you, so why not?
kchayfie,
I starting writing my last post before you submitted yours, so apologies - it appears we made the same point.