You can get probably get charge controllers that can be paralleled. If not you put in a
normally-closed double-pole relay that is run by shore power and disconnects the output
of the charge controller the moment you plug in the shore power.
You need to fuse or better yet breaker the 12VDC distribution. I suggest you go to a marine chandlery
such as West Marine and get an appropriate breakered distribution panel.
West Marine Breaker Panel Search
I didn't 'focus' the search since there are a lot of things here you should be considering. Large
inline breakers to protect the 1/0AWG cable. Possibly an AC panel. Metered panels that help you
recognize big loads and at-a-glance battery states, etc.
I highly recommend you go to this page:
Advisor Articles
and scroll down to the
Electrical Section and do some reading. Your trailer almost
exactly matches a boat in its electrical properties. You can probably skip Under Water
Lights unless you have exotic trailering plans. Same for navigation lights.
Here's one of those links you'll find useful:
[URL unfurl="true"]http://www.westmarine.com/WestAdvisor/Marine-Wire-Size-And-Ampacity[/url]
I wouldn't doubt West Marine has everything you need for what you describe in your sketch above,
and people who can advise about the ability to connect their solar charge controllers to shore chargers etc.
Keith Cress
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