Abrasive blasting is a bit more complex than obvious. And often, its more complex than "sandblast" - but it doesn't have to be.
What IS ABSOLUTELY critical is what the final finished surface has to be (cleanliness, smoothness, evenness of finish, roughness of surface, flatness (contour) of surface -> (no erosion of flat areas into pits and gouges, no removal of cast or machined "outcropping" by over-enthusiastic blasting), degree of embedded grit left in the surface, amount of original "crud" left in the nooks and crannies in the surface.
If the abrasive grit is recycled - and it often is! - how much "crud and grit" from previous cycles are acceptable? For example, if you are blasting stainless steel or an alloy, can you allow recycled grit from a previous carbon steel part to be used? Probably not! Can you allow old paint or rust or crud from a previous cycle be blasted back onto this project? Maybe. Maybe not.
If you allow nut (shells) to be used so you don't scar the surface, how much "dust" can you afford in your tank? Maybe dust control is more important "time to blast"? Maybe "time to blast" is more important, and the sandblast crew will be wearing full air-fed hoods anyway, but need special heating or cooling safety gear.
How you get that final surface is sometimes less important than what the crew uses. Both usually work together - Get a specific capability and recommendation from the various venders who will be doing the blasting! Some companies are set up for walnut shell blasting, others use industrial grits of various hardness and "sharpness" because they can control the grit size and sharpness.
See, you have asked about hardness only. But grit "shape" - the actual pointy tips of each piece of blast material is what does the cutting at the microscopic level. As grit wears away, it becomes more and more rounded and less effective in cutting the particles on the surface. More rounded grit hitting a surface for longer periods of time begins to blast the surface "crud' INTO the metal, not cutting it OFF OF the metal which is what you want.
A piec of sandpaper wears three ways: The individual grit becomes rounded and not effective; the individual grit gets worn off of the sandpaper entirely and the paper becomes smooth; and the paper builds up with eroded grit, the paint or wood or plastic that been worn off, and the worn off grit tips and edges and so does not even touch ort cut the surface anymore. Same thing happens with balst grit.
What tables have you looked up for sandblast mediums?