Hi,
I come from Heater manufacturing company.
At first instance when a customer tells us that there element is failing the first thing we ask is, are you running the heater at rated voltage or otherway around is the element manufactured for your rated voltage. If the element is designed for 240V, the normal tolerence is 5% so you can barely use it 250V & if there any small positive fluctuation in your supply the elements will fail.
If this is what the problem is than if you want to make sure the elements dont fail in future get your manufacturer to manufacture element for 260V (+ tolerence)and use it at 250V instead this will give you reduced output but is a safe design practice.
If voltage rating is not the reason, than it must one of your control faults like earth faults.
Last but not least.... go for a low Watt Density Element, choose element length so that the minimum ohms/meter stay low, this effects actual element (Ni/Chr resistance) thickness. Higher ohmic value means the element gets thinner which means slight fluctuation fails the element.
I hope to have answered, otherwise please let me know.
Regards
Fasi Rahman