Today i marked up some joist and deck shops:
"please pay attention to the revised joist notes on S0.0..."
next note
"joist fabricator shall provide calculations..."
In the first note i'm talking to the detailer/engineer, giving them a heads up just in case they didnt catch the revised notes. In the second note I am directing/requiring the fabricator to do something. They do not necessarily 'have to' pay attention to the revised notes on s0.0... but it's going to save both of us another round of review. But they absolutely must provide calculations or I - and the AHJ - will reject their submittials until they do.
My situation might be a bit different as i do a lot of production retail work where I deal with the same people (same initials on shop drawings/rfis/etc) on dozens of projects. Joist and deck guys have access to our .dwg files and have wasted no time in just copying our tables into their shop drawings (special joist diagrams). No need to get pissy with them, and all the reason to lend a hand, help them understand what the table means so I can keep using it and they can be comfortable interpreting it. I've realized that people can't read my mind. I communicate to them what i want to see on every set of shop drawings, then the next time i see a set of their drawings it has that info on it. Good, now i won't have to check these again, and they wont have to revise their shops.