Your question is a bit vague. Do you want to countercheck the reading from the utility meter? If this is the case, you have these to consider: 1)incoming mains 2)main disconnecting means (CB panel, disconnect switch) 3)the nature of construction of 1) & 2).
You will be installing your own separate metering equipment. This will be dependent on these 3 considerations and of course your budget. You do not need to hardwire the utility meter - this will be against the utility company rules and besides, utility meters are sealed or tamper-proof.
There are a number of metering types from the bulky ones to digital ones. As to what type depends on the 1), above - size of incoming mains, 2)main disconnecting means or panel - where to mount the CT's and/or PT's and what size in amperes for the CT ratio, 3)the construction/installation of 1) & 2) to determine where you will mount the meter itself and the parameters you wanted to monitor.
As for a meter where you want to directly read the COST of energy consumption, I'm not quite sure if there is a stand-alone unit of this type. There are units that read almost all parameters including THD's - but they are only part of a power management system (usually PC based) which is used in large installations such as commercial/high-rise buildings, etc.
For your comfort, as-built drawings with ratings are far better to discuss with. You may consult an electrical engineer friend with a hard copy of your existing installation. Also, you may give us further information with details you feel necessary.