If constructed for steam use and used correctly, any valve will function without problems for a long time. This is however only if the piping is laid out properly and the valves are used correctly. (On-off valves must be closed and opened 100%, and not be used as regulating valves, if not constructed for the purpose.)
For most systems lay-out, use and maitenance will not score at the very top of the scale. The result is that unproper drainage, inside impurities and not properly or already damaged sealing surfaces, will give haircracks and increasing leakage and cavitation over the valves. Possibly also waterhammer by upstart.
In my general experience some choices might give longer-lasting valves: globe-valves with protecting skirts for sealing surfaces, or globevalves moderated for regulating but used as on/off, bellow sealed stems, or ballvalves with carbon-reinforced seat-sealing rings Also some 'upper class' metal- seated butterfly valves with special construction and/or double eccentric construction might be a sensible choice.
For drainage steamtraps,vacuum-breakers, regulating valves/stations,safetyvalves specialists must be contacted for proper lay-out and selection of components.
Your problem indicates that there is a general potential for improvement in your system by checking all layout and components, not only the valves.