Agree with everyone. What a ridiculous thing to say (the other engineers), though the GC may be making this up and bluffing. Also, I think they are actually somewhat correct in their theory of how the structure may fail in a wind event. Unfortunately I do not see a PEMB holding together to the point where a footing is pulled out of the ground like a weed, but that doesn't mean you don't design the foundations correctly and to code.
And I would not be surprised if SrVaro's theory isn't dead on, I know some engineers ignore the 0.6D when it comes to the concrete weight. This discussion has been beat to death in previous threads.
My response when I am asked about another engineer's design is that I would have to see the plans, run the calcs, and talk to the engineer before I could comment. I wish all engineers would extend this courtesy. Otherwise it is apples to oranges, even if they are similar structures.
Like others said- offer to review their drawings and reactions for free

And be ready to turn them into the board for negligence.
It won't be the last time you will get questioned on PEMB foundation design. Happened to me early on in my career in a design-build where they way underestimated the concrete. I said I was just following the code, which at the time I think was 1.5 FS, and showed them my calcs as simple as they were. Their stupid response was "I guess other engineers interpret code differently", and I said there is not much to interpret there, it is very clear and straightforward. Agreeing with the concept is another issue.
Do you know if anyone installs helical piers or perhaps bell piers as was mentioned? These may give you a large uplift resistance while using a lot less concrete. They are not that expensive in my area (Florida) installed and may be quite economical, especially on a large project. Since I have been exposed to them more, I am waiting to have a project with a lot of large footings due to uplift and maybe explore them as an option...