pmtoo,
The large spacing between the compression and secondary ring on high-pressure diesels is to provide a "buffer" volume behind the compression ring. With high combustion pressures, the gas leakage passing through the ring gap and accumulating behind the compression ring can cause the compression ring to lift from its land and go into flutter. Having that extra volume space between the compression and secondary rings dampens the max pressure rise in that space due to leakage.
The distance from the crown to the (top) compression ring should not be reduced, since that distance provides thermal isolation. The ring interface temperatures (ie. groove land and liner surface) should be kept within the flash temperature capabilities of your lubricant, otherwise oil coking, ring sticking and scuffing will occur.
If you want to move the secondary ring up closer to the compression ring, you can still create a buffer volume by slightly undercutting the land area between the two rings. Just make sure to do some analysis to verify that the amount of ring land deflection is not causing the ring to twist excessively.
You may also gain some space by moving the oil control ring as close to the wrist pin bore as possible. It appears as though you're not using a composite piston and it's a 4-stroke engine, so the oil ring groove lower edge can be located within about 1mm of the wrist pin bore edge. If you do this, make sure to also extend the crown diameter relief cut lower. Unless you have a very short conrod, your piston skirt thrust faces should still be adequate.
Good luck.
Terry