Unfortunately, I must agree with Mike & Rafiq. I feel the root cause to this unfortunate situation is (1) engineers usually make horrendously poor managers and (2) many engineers think they should get paid much more than they normally do, and (3) those HR Weasels complicate the issues since their job is to protect the company and maintain harmony in the workplace. Even if it means getting rid of an employee who shows some dissention.
As I've gotten older I realize more and more that it is very easy to be critical, but d@mn hard to effectively coach an employee and modify their behavior without causing any hard feelings or de-motivate the employee. Generally my reviews have been equitable. Sometimes there were some boss impressions that I didn't feel were correct or fair. Once I got a comment that was so unbelievably outrageous that I immediately had a vision of a big neon sign over Boss' head flashing the word "idiot."
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I tried at the time to discuss the differences professionally. Sometimes OK, sometimes not. It is all very fluid about how far you should push that rock up the hill. And your boss is one thing, those Evil Weasels in HR are something completely different and usually illogical in the bargain.
Once or twice the review wording was absolutely wrong and I recognized it as the supervision laying the groundwork necessary to terminate me under false pretenses. I decided I had nothing to lose, so I engaged in direct battle against this.
Once I refused to sign, told the boss I'd respond in writing. I took his review and shredded it sentence by sentence, showing evidence to the contrary with dates & witnesses, to each charge against me. When confronted with this, he backed off and re-wrote the review. After I got his signature on my improved review (and it got put into my employee file), I quit two weeks later.
A similar incident occurred in which I wasn't able to get the wording changed or the supervisor to admit any wrongdoing on his part. I still quit shortly thereafter.
A Performance Review is a very difficult situation and the cards are generally stacked against you. You're in shoally waters, navigate carefully.
TygerDawg
Blue Technik LLC
Virtuoso Robotics Engineering