Thanks dik.
Yes, NEPCOAT is well respected and accepted. I did speak incorrectly, earlier, when I said that it was all polyurethane based topcoats. They actually do have some polysiloxane and polyaspartic topcoat systems, but for whatever reason, they are only approved with their 2 coat paint system. The 3 coat paint system is pretty much the gold standard but polyurethane topcoats are popular because they are relatively inexpensive, not because they are the best.
One more thing, and I tell you this because I learned this when I did my first steel bridge and it is not very obvious if you read AASHTO.... In order to achieve the slip coefficient that you desire for slip critical bolted connections, the faying surface can ONLY be primed. No topcoat will pass the slip coefficient test. So you will need to provide a paint blocking detail in your specs or on your plans or at least stipulate it with words which connections are considered slip critical and how to block the paint. You will notice that in the footnote of the NEPCOAT website.