"If I seem annoyed when you ask questions, it's because I am."
"because I sit in here and you sit out there"
Man, I am SO thankful for my boss right now! You guys had it tough! Geez!
Engineergrad, I too am from the class of '04. I still feel inept on a daily basis, but I don't let that stop me. I do exactly what AggieYank did--study it on my own time, at my own pace. I read codes, standards, forums such as this, textbooks, technical papers, ask our piping designers (their experience is invaluable)...you name it. It's not always easy to do, especially when you just got out of the habit of studying every day.
I also go to our local ASME chapter meetings when the topic of discussion is something I am working on, have worked with, or will work on someday. That's always a bit uncomfortable for me since I'm not only the youngest by about 30 years, I'm also the only woman there. But I do it so that I have a leg-up on my next project. My boss really appreciates this because it shows my eagerness to learn.
I am very lucky to have a great boss. Is he a great mentor? No. However, an older engineer, a PE, came to work with us about three months after I'd arrived. We had a very rocky work relationship at first due to communication issues, but I just did my very best to educate myself as much as possible, slow down and "get it right the first time," and back check *everything* before handing it over to him. As long as I didn't make stupid mistakes from rushing, he didn't mind that perhaps my solution was incorrect--he'd just kindly help me fix it. He came to respect my work ethic and the fact that I was humble enough to ask 2,000 questions a day (even the "stupid" ones). I trust him as a mentor, even though he's not always right either--and believe me, I question his answers, too.
Hang in there. Someday I hope our generation remembers what these days are like so we can be better "mentors" to our up and coming EITs.