Sorry, waross, but I disagree in this case. Individual resistors is the most common condition and does not cause any significant problems for the protection system. There are a variety of ways of getting from here to there, but individual resistors would be the most common based on what I've seen.
Resistance of the resistors is based on voltage and current desired. A 10A resistor for a 12.47kV system would have a resistance of 7200V/10A or 720[Ω]. Then you need to pick a time rating; 10 seconds is common - the protection system must clear the fault faster than this time. Maximum ground fault from the generators to a fault on the system (or in another generator) will depend on the number of generators on line. This can be easily handled using numeric relays and settings groups. For those relays that will see a variable ground fault current, use different settings groups that correspond to the number of generators on line so that you have a setting in use that is appropriate for the number of generators on line. You might want to check how the relay changes between settings groups; one popular brand goes off-line for a few seconds to change settings groups while at least one other brand does not have any off-line time between settings groups.
Utility paralleling will not impact the sizing of your resistors, although without the utility present, your MV system will be high impedance grounded and subject to overvoltages should you have the misfortune of a ground fault. If all your loads are phase-to-phase or 3-phase, you should be OK if your insulation is all rated for phase-to-phase rather than phase-to-neutral, and that includes any arresters that could be energized only from your generators.
Grounding resistors are probably the most cost effective means of limiting ground fault current. There is no particular means of limiting phase-to-phase or 3-phase fault currents other than inserting impedance in the line, such as a transformer. That probably isn't worth the expense or losses.
While paralleled with the utility, it is highly likely that you will have a solidly grounded MV system, and then it will be high resistance grounded will operating on just your generators. With the utility present, the generator grounding resistors will only protect the generator against internal ground faults after the generator breaker has opened. Without the utility present, your high resistance grounded system will be better protected against phase-to-ground faults, but no different for the other faults. Arcing faults will be less likely to occur while operating as a high resistance grounded system, but should one occur it is highly likely that it will involve at least one more phase, at which point the grounding resistance becomes moot.
My recommendations:
Individual grounding resistors.
10A for 10s is a common size.
Use numeric relays and settings groups to match protection to the number of generators on line.
Everything on the system rated for phase-to-phase voltages (cable insulation, transformer insulation, arresters).
No phase-to-neutral loads.
Wye connected VTs (ground faults easier to detect through voltage shift than current in some cases).