As I mentioned before, a membrane area element has in-plane stiffness only. F22 is in-plane so unless you have something specific in mind, I would keep f11 and f22 modifiers as 1 or close to 1, not 0. You could use a membrane element, but since membranes have no out-of-plane stiffness, if you mesh them such that there is no support on any edge you can potentially encounter instabilities. Alternatively you can assign property modifier to "shell" type area elements in order to make them act like membranes assigning tiny multiplication factors (.0001) to all three bending directions. That tiny remaining stiffness often can prevent instabilities. Model the thickness to an equivalent uniform thickness to account for the deck ribs.
SAP will automatically account for weight and mass of elements modeled including your deck, so if you want to assign weights from a vendor table for the filled deck, you might consider assigning property modifiers to your filled decks to zero out the weight and mass which you substitute with assigned area load from vendor. You can have the SAP mass model based on loads instead of modeled elements and assigned masses.
SAP has some steel design assignments for camber and camber limits that you might be able to utilize for your design.