If the tank is not round, give some serious thought to making it round. You can considerably simplify the design, the construction and make it cheaper, and meet the various codes that way.
Also, take a good look at what, if any, codes this needs to follow, particularly fire codes; whether it needs to be double-walled, etc.
If the tank is small (say, 5,000 gallons or less), it likely isn't worthwhile to do a finite element analysis. Run stiffeners vertically or horizontally, depending on the tank dimensions, treat the plate in between as little beams (or rectangular plates per Roark), transfer that load to the stiffeners, treat part of the wall as the flange of the stiffener. It's very easy to spend $5 of your time saving $2 worth of material on something like this.
Details of rectangular tanks aren't covered by the various codes, so they aren't standardized, and you could have a lot of variation in allowable stress, design assumptions, and detailing.
If you'll be having a fabricator construct the tank for you, they could quite likely design it as well- check and see- but they'd have the same issues to deal with.