Dregischan,
First thing that I would do if I were you would be to upgrade to 512 MB of Ram, although SWX runs on 256 you will see really nice performance gain.
Set you paging file size to 1500MB minumum and 1500MB maximum that way you system will set aside that much for swap space instead of trying to vary it on the fly, this will prevent your swap data from becoming fragmented. This in itself can cause a system crash like that It has happened to me as well.
As to the radeon vid card, I have found these cards to be a bit "twitchy" at best. I would suggest first making sure that you have the latest driver available for your video card. Then I would try to work with the settings of the video card. For instance I have seen people that have set their screen resolution over 1280x1024 and have their machines lock up like crazy. Try lowering your screen res below this number and see if this makes it any better.
Personally, if it were me wanting to make the most of my tube time, I would replace the card with one of the passing video cards, I have had great success with the Diamond FireGL-1 and 2, and the Nvidia Quadro2 pro 64.
I realize that a video card can cost a great deal of money to replace, but you have to consider how much you value your design time!
Try the things I outlined here and get back with me if you still have issues.
Regards,
Jon
jgbena@yahoo.com