I see that noone has yet responded to your inquiry on this normally vibrant list. I guess I would therefore be interesting to learn exactly how it has been concluded that the red rubber gasket specifically “failed”, to cause whatever problem occurred in this specific instance (I am aware that flanged joints have been utilized for centuries with all manner of gasketing materials at different times, including I believe leather, lead, various other metals, and all manners of rubber and composites etc. including that of which you speak, and I believe in some designs even with no gaskets!) It is also interesting that the manufacturer of the gasket product involved, presumably making same for the intended service, was apparently “no help”.
That being said, I was told many years ago (by someone I considered much more of a rubber expert than me!) that at least then many “red rubber gaskets” were composed of a very high percentage of some sort of “clay”. While I would not otherwise consider myself any sort of expert in cookie-cut red sheet rubber, I suspect it would follow that those rubbers would quite likely exhibit different physical properties, e.g. some lesser elongation or maybe even significantly greater compression set etc. (than for example some other engineered rubber pipeline seals with lesser or other fillers, e.g. such as those required for push-on and mechanical gasket seals by standards such as ANSI/AWWA C111/A21.11-07 American National Standard for Rubber-Gasket Joints for Ductile-Iron Pressure Pipe and Fittings.)
Flanged gaskets other than “red rubber” are available, and also some with special sealing features from various vendors that may be arguably helpful maybe particularly with variations in bolting diligence/expertise and variable joint loadings (e.g. see gaskets described on page 8-3 at
While such molded gaskets and even with special sealing features may or may not be more expensive than sheet rubber, depending on factors such as size etc., I suspect in many common at least small piping sizes these molded gaskets are probably at least a little more expensive per each than red rubber basically stamped or otherwise sort of “cookie cut” from larger/bulk sheet.
With abject apologies to William Shakespeare (I think), perhaps “therein lies the rub” (so to speak), I wonder if this may in a sense be a case of one getting what one pays for?