In the marine industry, there are two non-metallic products that I know of that may be right for your application:
1. Thordon is marketed by Thordon bearings, Inc. 3225 Mainway, Burlington, Ontario, L7M 1A6. It's claimed by the maker to be the best material for service in highly abrasive environments with minimal boundary lubrication. This material is a monolithic polymer of proprietary formulation, and I don't think it's available as a reinforced polymer, but check with them if you want a reinforced material. Thordon is used as a bearing shell liner in water-lubricated propeller shaft bearings (known in the maritime trade as "cutless" bearings). Another application is in water-turbine shaft bearings, where the operating conditions are similar to propeller shaft bearing conditions.
Thordon has a website at:
2. Another material is called "Orkot", sold by the Orkot Corporation, 2535 Prairie road, Unit D, Eugene OR 97402. It consists of a woven-glass fiber reinforcement that's embedded in a graphite-filled polymer matrix. The operating conditions and applications are similar to those in 1. above.
Here is an excerpt from an Orkot ad:
"Orkot is a thermoset composite material reinforced by impregnating fabric with thermosetting resins. The result is a material with excellent strength, impact resistance and dimensional stability. The precise formulation of Orkot can be varied to suit specific applications, but all grades have outstanding chemical and mechanical properties. An extremely low coefficient of friction, high PV limit, and superior wear performance makes Orkot a supreme bearing material, particularly when working with heavy loads. With virtually no water absorption or swelling in water, Orkot is a perfect material choice for wet applications. Orkot is commonly used for Offshore Marine bearings, bushings, thrust washers, wear pads and wear rings."
Orkot is marketed by San Diego Plastics who have a comprehensive website at:
This site has all you need to evaluate the material for your application.
These materials are used in applications very similar to yours (water-immersed, high-pressure, boundary lubrication, slow speed) and I believe they're both very good candidates.