Sorry to just see this now. I just found this website.
Parker does have a monitor switch for monitoring the shifted condition of the spool. If you just need to know that the spool has shifted to a certain position, there is a simple on-off switch. If you need more precise feedback, then a proportional valve is more what you need.
For hydraulic applications, you can find the monitor switch on the Parker website, under "hydraulics" and "industrial"
email me if you need more info.
kbresnahan@parker.com